How I Found My Dream Relationship

 

My dream man was a perfect match to me after learning and
practicing the universal principles. Like attracts Like.

If you are a man reading this know that these universal principles are helpful for both men and women.

This is my journey on how I manifest my dream relationship...

I was lonely and attracted the same bad relationships. It was because I attracted the same kind of men over and over that I began to wonder why.  

LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE

The answer was I was looking outside of myself for love. 

So I leaned how to find love inside myself. One day I walked down the aisles of Barnes and Noble, a book store. A book fell off the shelf and landed at my feet. It was called The Logic of Love by Swami Chetanananda and it helped me  As I read this book, it soothed my loneliness.

LOVE THYSELF

Write down 10 qualities that you are looking for in a relationship and develop them within yourself. 

Like Attracts Like

Note: You will find your own lessons to love yourself. Ask the Universe to help you.

I got myself a mentor a person/teacher who guides you because they have experience. I was crying over yet another man who left me and She suggested I write down 10 qualities that I wanted in a mate. When I was finished writing the 10 qualities down, she asked me to read them out loud to her. Then she said, "Now you must develop those qualities in yourself."  I was shocked. But I did what she suggested. I developed those 10 qualities. For example,  kindness,  love for nature,  positive mindset, love for hiking, and passion for spiritual or metaphysical education etc. I had so much fun developing these qualities in myself. I quickly manifested a great metaphysical school where I took classes. Out of the blue I got a brochure from a nature group and signed up for one of their hikes, A client invited me to a 4 day metaphysical workshop out in Temecula, CA. Many opportunities opened up.

BE THING YOU DREAM OF HAVING 

I met this really cool man who matched my list but he did not want to commit. 

In the past I put up with anything just to be in a relationship and also fearing I would be alone. But I had the courage to be honest and say I wanted a committed relationship. You cannot fall in love with potential because you will be disappointed over and over again. 

SPEAK YOUR TRUTH

 I  had faith that if I was meant to have a good relationship then the universe would deliver it. I totally let go.

LET GO 

In two months my daughter met a man in a bar that really impressed her and she set us up on a blind date. Though I have a great and funny story to tell on this I will stick to the subject and that is once I let go... once I developed the qualities I wanted in a husband or relationship, the universe delivered the perfect match for me.

That man was wonderful and we got married a year later.

The universe is always, reflecting the perfect match for you according to your thoughts and beliefs, your dominate focus and emotions. 

Here are some attitudes, moods, and feelings that will keep you locked in the cycle of looking for love.

• Complaining you are lonely
• Feeling jealous when you see another couple in love
• Feeling victimized, not worthy, or good enough
• Noticing you have not found your perfect mate yet

19 Happy Years of Marriage

Write down those 10 qualities

Develop those qualities in yourself

It works !

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Be Well !

Deborah Moen
Deborah's Little Gems