How I Found My Dream Relationship

 

My dream man was a perfect match to me after learning and
practicing the universal principles. Like attracts Like.

If you are a man reading this know that these universal principles are helpful for both men and women.

This is my journey on how I manifest my dream relationship...

I was lonely and attracted the same bad relationships. It was because I attracted the same kind of men over and over that I began to wonder why.  

LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE

The answer was I was looking outside of myself for love. 

So I leaned how to find love inside myself. One day I walked down the aisles of Barnes and Noble, a book store. A book fell off the shelf and landed at my feet. It was called The Logic of Love by Swami Chetanananda and it helped me  As I read this book, it soothed my loneliness.

LOVE THYSELF

Write down 10 qualities that you are looking for in a relationship and develop them within yourself. 

Like Attracts Like

Note: You will find your own lessons to love yourself. Ask the Universe to help you.

I got myself a mentor a person/teacher who guides you because they have experience. I was crying over yet another man who left me and She suggested I write down 10 qualities that I wanted in a mate. When I was finished writing the 10 qualities down, she asked me to read them out loud to her. Then she said, "Now you must develop those qualities in yourself."  I was shocked. But I did what she suggested. I developed those 10 qualities. For example,  kindness,  love for nature,  positive mindset, love for hiking, and passion for spiritual or metaphysical education etc. I had so much fun developing these qualities in myself. I quickly manifested a great metaphysical school where I took classes. Out of the blue I got a brochure from a nature group and signed up for one of their hikes, A client invited me to a 4 day metaphysical workshop out in Temecula, CA. Many opportunities opened up.

BE THING YOU DREAM OF HAVING 

I met this really cool man who matched my list but he did not want to commit. 

In the past I put up with anything just to be in a relationship and also fearing I would be alone. But I had the courage to be honest and say I wanted a committed relationship. You cannot fall in love with potential because you will be disappointed over and over again. 

SPEAK YOUR TRUTH

 I  had faith that if I was meant to have a good relationship then the universe would deliver it. I totally let go.

LET GO 

In two months my daughter met a man in a bar that really impressed her and she set us up on a blind date. Though I have a great and funny story to tell on this I will stick to the subject and that is once I let go... once I developed the qualities I wanted in a husband or relationship, the universe delivered the perfect match for me.

That man was wonderful and we got married a year later.

The universe is always, reflecting the perfect match for you according to your thoughts and beliefs, your dominate focus and emotions. 

Here are some attitudes, moods, and feelings that will keep you locked in the cycle of looking for love.

• Complaining you are lonely
• Feeling jealous when you see another couple in love
• Feeling victimized, not worthy, or good enough
• Noticing you have not found your perfect mate yet

19 Happy Years of Marriage

Write down those 10 qualities

Develop those qualities in yourself

It works !

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Be Well !

Deborah Moen
Deborah's Little Gems

Recognize Limiting Money Beliefs

 

103 Disempowering Belief About Money
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Do you know what the #1 cause of stress is?

It's money!  Money typically stresses people out more than anything else in their lives.  And with stress comes... you got it... health challenges.  Yikes!

That's why it is important to address any issues around money in your life.  So today I want to share with you a really great free resource that I know can help you in this area.

It's a super-powerful free eBook called, "103 Disempowering Beliefs Around Money and Success and How to Eliminate Them in Minutes!" by my friend, New York Times and Amazon #1 bestselling author Nick Ortner.

You can access it by going here:
103 Disempowering Beliefs Around Money and Success



Here's why this eBook is so powerful, and it's not only because of the effect it can have on your level of income and success, but also because of the way it will affect your health in so many positive ways::

1 - It actually lists 103 disempowering beliefs about money and success and takes you through an easy to follow belief discovery process that will help you to figure out exactly what beliefs are holding you back.  I think this discovery process alone is incredibly eye-opening, because it brings your disempowering beliefs to the forefront of your awareness, so that you can eliminate them.

I think you'll be pretty surprised at what comes up for you when you go through this simple process that takes just a few minutes.

2 - The eBook also lists 103 empowering beliefs that you can start using immediately as positive affirmations to counteract any disempowering beliefs you may have.

3 - It also shows you how to use a powerful technique known as Tapping to get at the core of these disempowering beliefs, and to allow you to change them faster than any other way you'll ever experience!

The reason it's so effective is because Tapping works to literally rewire the brain!  Once you experience it you'll know exactly what I mean.

#4 - Here's the best part... this can have a big impact on your health!  When you eliminate disempowering beliefs around money, and the stress that comes with them, it has a monumental effect on your health.

I want nothing more than for you to be happy, healthy and successful in your life, and this eBook can help you get there.

And I promise you that this isn't an eBook with just "fluff."  This eBook is an amazing resource that I know will help you get results.

Plus, if you're like me, you're probably incredibly curious to know which of the 103 disempowering beliefs are currently running your life!  :)

I highly recommend getting this 100% free eBook right now.  Just go here to get access: click on the link

103 Disempowering Beliefs Around Money and Success



Increase Your Abundance


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You may want to read this article, "A Better Relationship with Money which has a Money Vow."
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A Better Relationship With Money

Make a vow to have a better relationship with money

 I have caught myself saying things like this.

I never get enough of you and when you are here I am afraid of losing you.

Does that sound like a healthy relationship? No. Yet we may be thinking about money like this.

• You are with me and then you leave.
• I find out you have been with someone more successful than me.
• I cannot figure out how to make you stay with me.
• I am not good enough for you.
• I am exhausted trying to keep you 

Sound like some of the thoughts about money you have?



I have a Money Vow that will welcome money. I heard this from Rikka Zimmerman. Say this vow and change your attitude about money and the vibration will send a more positive message to the universe and the forces of Law of Attraction will this reflect back to you. You can create your own vow for money also.


Money Vow


Money,

Today I commit myself to many years of growth and sharing. Our relationship will be stronger and more joyful than ever before.
It is in choosing this relationship that I make this so.
The decision to commit and share that life with you is one that I make happily and confidently. Secure in the knowledge that you will be my friend, I pledge to be joyous and faithful to you.


Whether you use this vow or not I am sure you can see how you could be pushing away the money by what you may be thinking and believing about money.

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Until next time Check this out something very helpful and it is free.

A free eBook is available that you can read on your computer, laptop or phone.  It is called, "103 Disempowering Beliefs About Money and Success and How to Eliminate Them in Minutes"  It is written by my friend, Nick Ortner from The Tapping Solution

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The Tapping World Summit is a very effective way to change our belief about money by using a technique call Emotional Freedom Technique EFT. Watch this video and see for yourself what tapping is all about. It is free. You will give your first name and email for access. 

How to Overcome Negative Thinking