How I Found My Dream Relationship

 

My dream man was a perfect match to me after learning and
practicing the universal principles. Like attracts Like.

If you are a man reading this know that these universal principles are helpful for both men and women.

This is my journey on how I manifest my dream relationship...

I was lonely and attracted the same bad relationships. It was because I attracted the same kind of men over and over that I began to wonder why.  

LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE

The answer was I was looking outside of myself for love. 

So I leaned how to find love inside myself. One day I walked down the aisles of Barnes and Noble, a book store. A book fell off the shelf and landed at my feet. It was called The Logic of Love by Swami Chetanananda and it helped me  As I read this book, it soothed my loneliness.

LOVE THYSELF

Write down 10 qualities that you are looking for in a relationship and develop them within yourself. 

Like Attracts Like

Note: You will find your own lessons to love yourself. Ask the Universe to help you.

I got myself a mentor a person/teacher who guides you because they have experience. I was crying over yet another man who left me and She suggested I write down 10 qualities that I wanted in a mate. When I was finished writing the 10 qualities down, she asked me to read them out loud to her. Then she said, "Now you must develop those qualities in yourself."  I was shocked. But I did what she suggested. I developed those 10 qualities. For example,  kindness,  love for nature,  positive mindset, love for hiking, and passion for spiritual or metaphysical education etc. I had so much fun developing these qualities in myself. I quickly manifested a great metaphysical school where I took classes. Out of the blue I got a brochure from a nature group and signed up for one of their hikes, A client invited me to a 4 day metaphysical workshop out in Temecula, CA. Many opportunities opened up.

BE THING YOU DREAM OF HAVING 

I met this really cool man who matched my list but he did not want to commit. 

In the past I put up with anything just to be in a relationship and also fearing I would be alone. But I had the courage to be honest and say I wanted a committed relationship. You cannot fall in love with potential because you will be disappointed over and over again. 

SPEAK YOUR TRUTH

 I  had faith that if I was meant to have a good relationship then the universe would deliver it. I totally let go.

LET GO 

In two months my daughter met a man in a bar that really impressed her and she set us up on a blind date. Though I have a great and funny story to tell on this I will stick to the subject and that is once I let go... once I developed the qualities I wanted in a husband or relationship, the universe delivered the perfect match for me.

That man was wonderful and we got married a year later.

The universe is always, reflecting the perfect match for you according to your thoughts and beliefs, your dominate focus and emotions. 

Here are some attitudes, moods, and feelings that will keep you locked in the cycle of looking for love.

• Complaining you are lonely
• Feeling jealous when you see another couple in love
• Feeling victimized, not worthy, or good enough
• Noticing you have not found your perfect mate yet

19 Happy Years of Marriage

Write down those 10 qualities

Develop those qualities in yourself

It works !

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Be Well !

Deborah Moen
Deborah's Little Gems

The Spaghetti Squash Gift-The Recipe and The Manifestation

The spaghetti squash gift. 

Even though your desires seem to go unnoticed by the universe, enjoy your life anyway just the way it is. Faith, surrender, and gratitude, those desires will manifest in ways you never imagined.

I love spaghetti squash. Here is how I fix it

1. Preheat oven to 375
2. Lightly oil a baking sheet
3. Cut squash in half from stem to blossom end (lengthwise) and soup out seeds and pulp
4.  Drizzle with olive oil and season with salt and pepper
5. Place cut side down on the prepared baking dish
6. Bake for 35-50 minutes ovens temps vary. I do 50 minutes because I am high in altitude.

Spaghetti squash grows really well in my clay soil. Each plant  I grew had 6-7 nice yellow spaghetti squashes. Last year the squash bug got my crop of pumpkins so I opted not to grow any kind of squash this year. While shopping at a local nursery in late spring, I was attracted to a beautiful banana squash plant  in a small pot. I bought it and planted out back away from the garden hoping the squash bug would not see it. The squash bugs came anyway and I had to pick them off one by one and also scrape off the eggs deposited on the backs of the leaves and stems. To my surprise after 3 weeks of picking off the bugs, they stopped visiting. The plant flourished with our nourishing monsoon rains and the daily care I gave them. I loved watching the beautiful bright yellow-orange flowers bloom.

One day in mid September, I noticed a squash forming!  I had visions of baking the squash in warm oven on a chilly fall day. 

A few days later I happened to notice the baby squash was 

eaten by a lucky critter, probably a squirrel or a skunk. But I still had faith it would grow nicely in spite of the eaten squashes. 

Early October, before any more fruits developed, Jack Frost came and waved his frozen wand over all the plants here in Utah. The Squash plants withered and sunk into the earth. It would seem that all my inspired action had turned into failure. But,  I had crops frozen before so I took it in stride. I let it go. I still loved eating squash and still had the vision of baking it in the warm oven on a chilly fall day.

A few days after the frost my husband went to get hay for our animals and brought me a spaghetti squash! I was so delighted. The man who sells us hay had shared his crop with us. A week later, we went to buy 4 more big bales for winter. The man said, " Go to the back of my truck and get yourself a few squashes" I went back to his truck bed and it was filled with beautifully formed spaghetti squashes. I chose two. So now I have 3 spaghetti squashes! I was so grateful and delighted that in spite of my dilemma with the squash bugs, the hungry critters, and the frost, I indeed received the squashes I had desired. Woo hoo ! Thank you universe !

As I sit in my kitchen writing this post, I am preheating my oven on a chilly fall day for delicious roast spaghetti squash. I have chills writing this because I can feel the magic in this process.

So the point is, do not give up your dream or desires. Keep a good attitude. Let go of the how and when. The gifts are revealed to you in ways you could not imagine.

A good tip is, the things we need do not manifest as quickly as the things we desire. So hold the desire as long as it makes you smile and let go of the need. Have faith and learn to love your life and appreciate the many miracles around you now.

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Make An Intuitive Crystal Grid

The Intuitive Crystal Grid ( No right or wrong way ) 

Intuitive
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#sacred #symbols #ceremony #healing #crystsals

I will show you how I made my intuitive crystal grid.


Don't let the word intuitive freak you out. You are a natural at it even if you do not think so. It is simply following how you feel and what you like. Your intuition is your kind friend and supports your well-being. Follow it.

Use what comes to mind

• do not over analyze
•  just be you 
• follow what you feel.  
• there is no right or wrong way

An intuitive crystal grid can be made for manifesting or actualizing anything. After all you are a deliberate co-creator aren't you?

1.  Find a tray or a plate to place it on or make one on your altar. I happened to have this awesome garnet hexagon-like platter.
2. Make an intention or state your desire.  Source gets on board and becomes it right away, not just agrees with you, but becomes the full non-physical embodiment of that and holds that vibrational frequency which is like a guiding light for you to find your way to your desire.
3. Now all you got to do is make your grid and let go. 
4. Decide to let go of worry and through one least resistant thought at a time, work up to appreciating life and noticing the blessings. In doing that you will match the vibration of the desire or intent.
5. Begin this non resistant path by saying, "This or something better will manifest for me." 

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It is so basic.
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I made this for my hen, Daisy May. She got well because as I let go, I relaxed, and was able to be aware of inspirational moment to moment information about what to feed her which transformed her energy and balanced her body. Letting go is key in assisting and influencing a healing. The Intuitive Crystal Grid helped me do that and it was really fun. 

Here was how I created my Intuitive Crystal Grid
Choose your crystals by color, how they feel or properties and vibration. I have the book Love is In the Earth by Melodie to look up the properties and influences of crystals. 

Intuitive Crystal Grid by DeborahMoen
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#sacred #crystals # ceremony # ritual #healing #transformation

• I wanted a meaningful centerpiece so I chose a stone that has a mauve-pink center which looks like a heart to me.
• I placed a short quartz wand at the top standing vertically to symbolize and connect to the highest vibration of Love. 
• I placed the aventurine, amazonite and crystal quartz to the right one after the other
• I placed flourite and 2 moon stones on the left one after the other.
• the stone I can feel strongest is rutilated quartz so I placed them below near the stones I already placed to enhance them.
• amethyst was placed bottom center 
• citrines were place on either side of the amethyst

I felt my intuitive crystal grid was perfect and it gave me such joy to make this. I left it sitting overnight and slept like a baby because I knew the outcome was in God's ( good) Hands. Letting go and moving forward with joy is key in influencing or assisting transformation. 

I have a friend that also uses magnets and weaves a sacred symbol through the objects with her mind. 

I enjoyed sharing this with you.

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Be Well 
Deborah Moen
Life Mentor, Teacher, Reiki Master 
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Love is in the Earth: A Kaleidoscope of Crystals - The Reference Book Describing the Metaphysical Properties of the Mineral Kingdom