How I Found My Dream Relationship

 

My dream man was a perfect match to me after learning and
practicing the universal principles. Like attracts Like.

If you are a man reading this know that these universal principles are helpful for both men and women.

This is my journey on how I manifest my dream relationship...

I was lonely and attracted the same bad relationships. It was because I attracted the same kind of men over and over that I began to wonder why.  

LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE

The answer was I was looking outside of myself for love. 

So I leaned how to find love inside myself. One day I walked down the aisles of Barnes and Noble, a book store. A book fell off the shelf and landed at my feet. It was called The Logic of Love by Swami Chetanananda and it helped me  As I read this book, it soothed my loneliness.

LOVE THYSELF

Write down 10 qualities that you are looking for in a relationship and develop them within yourself. 

Like Attracts Like

Note: You will find your own lessons to love yourself. Ask the Universe to help you.

I got myself a mentor a person/teacher who guides you because they have experience. I was crying over yet another man who left me and She suggested I write down 10 qualities that I wanted in a mate. When I was finished writing the 10 qualities down, she asked me to read them out loud to her. Then she said, "Now you must develop those qualities in yourself."  I was shocked. But I did what she suggested. I developed those 10 qualities. For example,  kindness,  love for nature,  positive mindset, love for hiking, and passion for spiritual or metaphysical education etc. I had so much fun developing these qualities in myself. I quickly manifested a great metaphysical school where I took classes. Out of the blue I got a brochure from a nature group and signed up for one of their hikes, A client invited me to a 4 day metaphysical workshop out in Temecula, CA. Many opportunities opened up.

BE THING YOU DREAM OF HAVING 

I met this really cool man who matched my list but he did not want to commit. 

In the past I put up with anything just to be in a relationship and also fearing I would be alone. But I had the courage to be honest and say I wanted a committed relationship. You cannot fall in love with potential because you will be disappointed over and over again. 

SPEAK YOUR TRUTH

 I  had faith that if I was meant to have a good relationship then the universe would deliver it. I totally let go.

LET GO 

In two months my daughter met a man in a bar that really impressed her and she set us up on a blind date. Though I have a great and funny story to tell on this I will stick to the subject and that is once I let go... once I developed the qualities I wanted in a husband or relationship, the universe delivered the perfect match for me.

That man was wonderful and we got married a year later.

The universe is always, reflecting the perfect match for you according to your thoughts and beliefs, your dominate focus and emotions. 

Here are some attitudes, moods, and feelings that will keep you locked in the cycle of looking for love.

• Complaining you are lonely
• Feeling jealous when you see another couple in love
• Feeling victimized, not worthy, or good enough
• Noticing you have not found your perfect mate yet

19 Happy Years of Marriage

Write down those 10 qualities

Develop those qualities in yourself

It works !

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Recognize Limiting Money Beliefs

 

103 Disempowering Belief About Money
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Do you know what the #1 cause of stress is?

It's money!  Money typically stresses people out more than anything else in their lives.  And with stress comes... you got it... health challenges.  Yikes!

That's why it is important to address any issues around money in your life.  So today I want to share with you a really great free resource that I know can help you in this area.

It's a super-powerful free eBook called, "103 Disempowering Beliefs Around Money and Success and How to Eliminate Them in Minutes!" by my friend, New York Times and Amazon #1 bestselling author Nick Ortner.

You can access it by going here:
103 Disempowering Beliefs Around Money and Success



Here's why this eBook is so powerful, and it's not only because of the effect it can have on your level of income and success, but also because of the way it will affect your health in so many positive ways::

1 - It actually lists 103 disempowering beliefs about money and success and takes you through an easy to follow belief discovery process that will help you to figure out exactly what beliefs are holding you back.  I think this discovery process alone is incredibly eye-opening, because it brings your disempowering beliefs to the forefront of your awareness, so that you can eliminate them.

I think you'll be pretty surprised at what comes up for you when you go through this simple process that takes just a few minutes.

2 - The eBook also lists 103 empowering beliefs that you can start using immediately as positive affirmations to counteract any disempowering beliefs you may have.

3 - It also shows you how to use a powerful technique known as Tapping to get at the core of these disempowering beliefs, and to allow you to change them faster than any other way you'll ever experience!

The reason it's so effective is because Tapping works to literally rewire the brain!  Once you experience it you'll know exactly what I mean.

#4 - Here's the best part... this can have a big impact on your health!  When you eliminate disempowering beliefs around money, and the stress that comes with them, it has a monumental effect on your health.

I want nothing more than for you to be happy, healthy and successful in your life, and this eBook can help you get there.

And I promise you that this isn't an eBook with just "fluff."  This eBook is an amazing resource that I know will help you get results.

Plus, if you're like me, you're probably incredibly curious to know which of the 103 disempowering beliefs are currently running your life!  :)

I highly recommend getting this 100% free eBook right now.  Just go here to get access: click on the link

103 Disempowering Beliefs Around Money and Success



Increase Your Abundance


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You may want to read this article, "A Better Relationship with Money which has a Money Vow."
        https://deborahslittlegems.blogspot.com/2019/09/a-better-relationship-with-money.html        

A Better Relationship With Money

Make a vow to have a better relationship with money

 I have caught myself saying things like this.

I never get enough of you and when you are here I am afraid of losing you.

Does that sound like a healthy relationship? No. Yet we may be thinking about money like this.

• You are with me and then you leave.
• I find out you have been with someone more successful than me.
• I cannot figure out how to make you stay with me.
• I am not good enough for you.
• I am exhausted trying to keep you 

Sound like some of the thoughts about money you have?



I have a Money Vow that will welcome money. I heard this from Rikka Zimmerman. Say this vow and change your attitude about money and the vibration will send a more positive message to the universe and the forces of Law of Attraction will this reflect back to you. You can create your own vow for money also.


Money Vow


Money,

Today I commit myself to many years of growth and sharing. Our relationship will be stronger and more joyful than ever before.
It is in choosing this relationship that I make this so.
The decision to commit and share that life with you is one that I make happily and confidently. Secure in the knowledge that you will be my friend, I pledge to be joyous and faithful to you.


Whether you use this vow or not I am sure you can see how you could be pushing away the money by what you may be thinking and believing about money.

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Until next time Check this out something very helpful and it is free.

A free eBook is available that you can read on your computer, laptop or phone.  It is called, "103 Disempowering Beliefs About Money and Success and How to Eliminate Them in Minutes"  It is written by my friend, Nick Ortner from The Tapping Solution

.

The Tapping World Summit is a very effective way to change our belief about money by using a technique call Emotional Freedom Technique EFT. Watch this video and see for yourself what tapping is all about. It is free. You will give your first name and email for access. 

How to Overcome Negative Thinking 

EFT Tapping Helps a Headache

EFT Tapping works anywhere.
I used it on this ride and got great results.

I was in the desert with my four wheel drive club. I was having so much fun until our club voted to go 25 miles farther. I was tired, hot and I was getting a headache. We were miles and miles from the city and I had to stay with the group. 

I used my tapping to get rid of my headache, re-energize myself and change my perception of the situation. I tapped in a different way than usual by touching the points and moving or jiggling/stimulating the skin with a slight light pressure instead of tapping. Tapping seemed to difficult on the treacherous rocky trail and too obvious in a crowd. 

Some of the tapping points

You can learn tapping from videos on youtube and articles on the web. It is easy to learn. Use tapping anytime you want to feel better mentally, physically, and/or emotionally.

•  I rated my condition a 10 which was intense.
• Karate chop point "Even though I am not feeling well I forgive myself and I want to feel better"(note: just saying that was healing.)
• I continued to identify my feelings and touched and jiggled the points. I just told the story of how I felt as I went through the points. I came up with more emotions as I touched the points such as angry, powerless, fearful, sad and then after about 4 rounds I began to yawn which felt like relief. 

I was down to a 2 rating which was low. I ended by breathing in while bringing my attention above my head and exhaling while bringing my attention to the earth below. This was very grounding.
I began to feel much better and my headache dissolved I was at a 1.
I was able to enjoy the rest of the ride.

The effects of tapping are accumulative. throughout my ride I continued to feel better !

It is time for The Tapping World Summit 2022. If you attended this event last year you know how beneficial tapping is for your mental and physical and spiritual well-being. Imagine a world where our society provides learning and information on tapping in public schools to help children manage their health and emotions. For now you can learn and then teach it to your children and community. Here are some introductory links to  get you familiar with tapping and also provide a channel to attend this FREE event to learn tapping. 

How to Overcome Negative Thinking

3 Free Tapping Meditations

Are Toxic Emotions Running Your Life ? 

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Seeing Number 1's Everywhere?

Seeing 1's everywhere? Here is why.

 Here are 3 reasons why you are seeing 1's.


1. In numerology this means the universe has opened a gateway for you. 

2.  1, 11, 111, and 1111 in Angel Numbers all mean: "Keep your thoughts positive, because your thoughts are manifesting instantly into form. Focus only upon your desires and not upon your fears." 

3. When number 1's show up in a sequence, it may jog your curiosity and interest. The part of your brain called the Reticular Activating System (RAS) actually senses this number you find intriguing and signals you to turn and see it when it appears near you. This seeking system within your brain also exists in animals for hunting. 

FYI: whatever you give most of your focus to your RAS will hunt down for you. This could be for good and not so good. Choose your focus wisely.

You are the creator of your experience so you can attach your own meaning to these 1's, for example, intend them to be a sign that the angels are with you. You will be delighted how these 1's showing up can help you feel loved, watched over, connected, and it can encourage right thinking. 

I have had such meaningful experiences with the 1's showing up just at the right time to assure me and guide me. I love sharing this with you and hope you have fun with this. 

DeborahMoonMoen

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Yummy Keto Hamburger Buns

Delicious keto burger buns recipe.
My husband loved them.

Just made these and they are so good !

All you need is Mozzarella cheese, cream cheese, eggs, almond flour, baking powder, salt, and parchment paper while baking, and melted butter to brush on the top.

This went together really fast. While melting the cheeses I was leery. How is this going to turn into bread, I wondered.

Keto burger bun recipe dough is 

Once the eggs and almond flour was added I scooped up 6 handfuls and plopped them down on the pan. The butter is for brushing on the top before baking.

I preheated the oven to 400 degrees

and slid the pan in for 10-12 minutes adding 2 minutes for a golden brown finish. Your times will vary.

Here is what they looked like.

Baked to a golden brown.
Keto Burger Buns.

These buns smelled like cheese bread and tasted like cheese bread. The texture was perfect. They held together under the big strong hands of my husband. He really loved his hamburger.

These buns were light and fluffy
yet sturdy enough to hold together.

Resource For Recipe

https://www.delish.com/cooking/recipe-ideas/a19712917/keto-burger-buns-recipe/

Deborah Moen
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EFT for ITP A Testimonial by Archana Mahtani

A Testimonial by Archana Mahtani

Today I want to share with you'll an experience which we had over the past month. Rohan woke up one morning with what looked like a rash, to be diagnosed with a condition called ITP. I am not going into details on this which can easily be googled for. A condition where platelets counts fall. The normal being 150000+ and in Rohan's case fell to 0 ! Further he was discharged from the A&E with a whole lot of precautions mainly to make sure he doesn’t bump or bleed. No medications were given to increase the platelets count and no indication as how soon he would recover. 

So in simple words we had to watch him 24/7 making sure he didn't mildly bump from the corner of a table or door handle, scratch or trip in anyway. No school, or traveling abroad, no vaccinations, no contact sports, cycling .... felt like our life had changed overnight ! 

So why did he get this .... A Post Viral condition that gets triggered on weeks after the viral has cleared. And it may not necessarily be a heavy flu. Apparently it's a common condition. 

So where did this leave us. Instead of waiting for him to recover, i immediately started thinking about everything I knew in energy work & alternative healing. It seemed like a test for all the knowledge I had gained over the years. Upon checking with Rohan he felt most comfortable with EFT. Each morning and evening we prayed then did an EFT session in the garden amongst nature receiving immense guidance from our Angels & Guides. EFT is such a simple fun technique. 3 weeks of simple EFT Tapping and enjoying making up silly words rhymes and poems, laughing & giggling. We furthermore focused on foods to increase platelet counts alongside a session of Reiki & Oracle card reading for guidance. 

And was this going to work, we hoped. For me I just wanted Rohan to be in a happy place. It is my strong belief that if we could help shift his vibration he would heal himself. 

I spoke to a co Fairyologist who is the EFT guru, I'd say. I am indebted to Deborah Moon Moen . Her words, Archana Mahtani you are well equipped to breeze through this, and the words repeatedly in my mind 'you got this' kept me going. 

So last week Rohan had his test and when Sam called telling me of what the scores were I was speechless, overwhelmed with tears. Could this happen 0 to 135000 in 3 weeks after being repeatedly told not to expect too much, give it a year. 

I could hear from the other side of the phone, Sam saying "it worked"

Rohan has been discharged. We are just so grateful for this miracle and today I want to make all aware of this simple EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique that has immediate affects on your body and mind as you tap on 8 specific acupressure meridian points. Its scope is phenomenal and my request to all is please please try tap tap tap for any problem big or small that you may have. It works directly on a cellular level and has claimed to cure phobias, cancer, autoimmune as in this case. You never know, you could heal yourself too ! 

Heartfelt thanks to my family Alicia PAC, Dr. Pravin & Dr. Gadia helping us understand the condition and being a strong support to us during this time.

Thank you Archana, for this wonderful testimonial that you have shared with us. 

Tapping is so easy to learn and very effective. I have it in my well-being tool box and can use it anytime anywhere and for anything that keeps me from my good life. Here is Iyanla Vanzant. She is a pistol and gives some powerful schooling on toxic emotions and how tapping can help. This video is free and will guide you to the free Tapping World Summit where I learned many valuable lessons on tapping. Of course there is an upgrade but the event is 100% free. 

https://rd117.isrefer.com/go/2022-TWS-EIV-VS2/WIREFOREST2/ 

Here are 3 Free Tapping Meditations 

https://rd117.isrefer.com/go/2022-TWS-EMed-VS3/WIREFOREST2/

How to Overcome Negative Thinking

                                 https://rd117.isrefer.com/go/2022-TWS-ENO-VS1/WIREFOREST2/

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Remember you have the power and the tools to be well!

Deborah Moen

Learn Tai Chi Chih Video

Tai Chi Chih was developed by Justin Stone.  I took a  Tai chi Chih class at the YMCA. I wanted to learn more about how energy was cultivated. I was trained in ballet and found the movements quite different. I felt  more freedom of movement. There is no pushing or shoving, stress or trying to do it exactly right.  Movement are soft, slow, meditative, and calming. Relax and breathe. Everyone moves at their own pace. In time the movements become easier and our understanding becomes deeper.

Soon after beginning Tai chi Chih class, I came home to find I was locked out of the house. I used some of the principles of Tai Chi Chih to open the window and climb inside. I shifted my weight to the right leg and moved from my center below the navel. Then I lifted my left leg parallel to the ground and entered into the window.  The movements and principles you learn while practicing Tai Chi, Qigong, or Tai Chi Chih will be with you a lifetime and help you maneuver through your day more easily. Tai Chi follows the path of least resistance. You can discover where you hold your tension and relax those areas. You can perform the movements standing, sitting or lying down.

Tai Chi Chih Full Routine

Follow along

Watch video

Want to understand more about Tai Chi Chih?
Here is a very informative interview about Tai Chi Chih 

Here is a directory to find a Tai Chi Chih class near you.

You can search by country, state and city.


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Be Well 

Enjoy your life.

                     

Brain Balancing Exercises For Autism, ADD, ADHD,

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This morning I found a video playlist on youtube,com about brain balancing exercises for children labeled with learning disabilities. I have two members of my family who can benefit from this information. Our schools and parents could benefit from this information. People who learn these methods can step forward and help others with this information.

The playlist I have below has exercises that retrain the brain to connect right and left hemispheres. Many benefits can come from doing these like being able to feel calm, longer attention span, better communication skills, better reading and comprehension, spelling and writing ability as well as improved immune function, co-ordination, well-being and more.


 Exercising the brain takes repetition to train and rewire how the brain works but these are fun and the time spent with your kids is so worth it. 3 times a week so the brain can rest.
Here is a playlist link of brain balancing Exercises.

Below is a youtube.com video link of the playlist of these exercises.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ajx2szIE9Vg&index=1&list=PLrr3z_jrKBLu_qTpJ_PFY8lzYv4I7LN6-


Related info:

About the videos she writes: How to inhibit primitive reflexes for Autism, Asperger's, ADD, Auditory Processing & Sensory Processing Disorder
http://www.autismrescueblog.com, 

How my son recovered from Autism, leaky gut, motor delays, sensory processing integration disorder, echoalia, metabolic imbalance, malabsorption, metal mercury toxicity, auditory processing disorder, expressive language disorder, Lyme Disease, ADD, ADHD, mitochondrial disorder, neurotoxicity, Candida/yeast. We're still working on the metals, Lyme, parasites and ADD.


Here is the link again to the video playist
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ajx2szIE9Vg&index=1&list=PLrr3z_jrKBLu_qTpJ_PFY8lzYv4I7LN6-

 Note: Donna Eden also has many exercises that assist the brain and body in learning, immune function and more. See my post http://deborahslittlegems.blogspot.com/p/energy-medicine_4722.html

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12 Steps ~ AA Part 2

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 If you would like to read Part 1 go here: 12 Steps~Part 1 

Note: All views expressed here are the opinion and experience of Deborah'Moon"Moen

Entering into the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous or any 12 Step program:

 The experience was like walking into a different realm. From the chaos of dealing with drinking and drugging to a well organized program. There is a secretary, a treasurer, a coffee maker, principles, steps and sharing, even a Big Blue Book to have for reference and study. A peer group materializes before our eyes. Once we were alone and now we are among others 100, 1.000, or more who understand and support us.


 It is the beginning of great transformation There are endless possibilities. It is all up to each individual to choose which path to take. While attending meetings, participants are asked to identify as an alcoholic before they share.

My Name is __________ and I am an alcoholic.

 Some Scenarios that may occur in the 12 Step Program:

• Some people may slip into their original pattern for many reasons but the reason may be because it feels better, more familiar and provides relief. Change can be frightening and stressful.
• Others remain in the 12 Step Programs because they continue to receive the benefits and support they desire or benefit greatly from helping others. 
• Some people believe they will always, in All Ways, forever be an Alcoholic and attend because they are afraid if they do not go they will go back to drinking.  
• Some people have a calling to explore the spiritual aspects of their being  More about that in 12 Steps the Awakening Part 3. 
  
  

Some Benefits of 12 Step programs: These are not in a particular order. And there are  many more benefits I have only mentioned a few here.

• It does feel wonderful to have support through the members and sponsors
• It feels wonderful to be a part of a group and witness first hand people who have overcome or managed their challenges.
• What is shared in the room stays in the room usually
• Gradually awareness emerges in different stages. The fog of denial is lifted as per individual perception and beliefs.
• It is wonderful to have some structure and a solution
• How wonderful to learn responsibility, to be of service
• Feeling the love of giving by placing $1 in the donation basket ( optional)
• Aspire towards helping others by attraction not promotion (being the change we would like to have for others)
• Feeling relief to have our mind diverted and to practice new ways of living.

For the first time I felt peace.

It was a Sunday meeting at a Gazebo outside a hospital, which had someone read the St Francis prayer and after the reading the room would go silent for 5 minutes. This 5 minutes of silence seemed impossible to get through at first. 

Regularly attending this meeting helped me overcome the fear of being still. I grew to love the St. Frances prayer and the peace of mind that 5 minutes of silence had given me. I learned the prayer by heart and was often asked to recite it from memory. In a room full of people who suffered from confusion, including me, this was a miracle. 

After many such meetings at the Gazebo, I had an opportunity to attend a 12 Step meditation on Sunset Beach far away from my home group. This turned out to be a very enriching experience which allowed me to sit quietly for 20 minutes. I actually experienced a dropping down feeling which almost sent me onto the floor. I found out later while sharing my experience with meditating during the meeting, that this was my body relaxing or letting go of yet another layer of stress or sinking deeper into relaxation. 

I eventually found a meditation class near my home at the Hsi Lai Temple in Hacienda Heights, California. 

You may like to read these posts

on my blog

12 Steps Part 1

12 Steps Part 3 The Awakening

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Be Well !



                           

Deborah Moen

12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous Part 1

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 The first formal steps I took  out of my chaotic life were the 12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. Going back 31 years, at age 39, I took my first steps to freedom. I found my way to the meeting through a hospital program in which my former husband was attending. It was part of a hospital chemical dependency program commitment. I attended the CDC Program to support my alcoholic husband. He had promised to get help after I left the home after a spiritual realization I had one day. 

The 12 Steps are worded in a language from the 1930's  The more you read the Big Book and practice its teachings in your life, the more you come to understand it. If you want to learn about the man who began this organization of Alcoholics Anonymous, you can read about him and how he came to know Dr. Bob, here: http://www.steppingstones.org/billsstory.html it is a very good history read. 

You can look at the 12 steps of alcoholics anonymous here. 

Or log onto this link https://www.recovery.org/topics/alcoholics-anonymous-12-step/

More of my personal experiences with 12 Steps :

12 Steps AA Part 2

12 Steps The Awakening Part 3

  
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Be well !

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